Have you ever been in such a situation? That's right, she didn't text back.

You just approached a girl, you two have an interesting conversation for a few minutes. She is attractive, speaks intelligently, and is quite witty, almost exactly the type of person you would still want to be. After all, one way or another you get her phone number , but there is one thing…

She doesn't text back when you text her .

Or she just replied curtly the first time, the second time… Then she didn't text back. It was as if she was kidnapped or didn't exist in this world.

Obviously you will ask why? OK, maybe she's busy. So you wait for another time to continue texting. But then 1 day, 2 days… Finally you find out that she rejected you, flatly refused.

Why didn't she text back?

In most cases, when she doesn't text you back, it's because you didn't create attraction on the first date. Obviously, she could have just been visited by a thief, but this is just an excuse for you to comfort yourself. In fact, she deliberately did not reply to avoid being disturbed by you. So it is important to remember:

Make a good impression when asking for a phone number

She obviously won't know who you are, or what your personality is like when you first meet her, unless you've mastered all the steps in the girls' learning series that Myself provides.

So it should be said that first impressions are extremely important at this moment. Be friendly, polite, courteous, but never brash or brazen when asking for her number. Because she knows all too well that you plan to ask her out, have a drink, watch a movie, or whatever in the future. So, if she doesn't show any interest, you'll know that contacting her in the future is a waste of time.In my opinion, you should state your intention directly when asking for a phone number . For example: “You are very witty, I would love to talk to you. Now I have to go, next Saturday I will contact you” (gives the phone to the girl to dial). Would you like to go to XYZ to do the ZYX? After probing, although she won't answer honestly, you can observe her body language to see how interested she is.

As follows. If she looks happy or giggles as she dials the number, it's a sign that she has a good impression of you. And if she hesitates or refuses, it's best to fall quickly to save time.

Make sure you text at the right time

Most or not all women share the same mindset, "I don't want to be seen as easy". So rest assured that she will never text you first. But she will wait for you to text back. So when is a good time to do this work?

Women always want and want to be pursued by men. So don't text her too soon (except for direct messages after asking for her number). If you just met her a few hours ago, just get busy and forget about her. The most appropriate time to text her is 24 hours away, of course, you should not let her wait too long because she will gradually lose interest in you. The maximum average of this period is 3 days.

Let her wait a bit, let her feel a little insecure, let her feel a little uneasy inside, then by the time she receives your message, her heart will be open. flags in the stomach.

What should I text for the first time?

The first message is also another important factor in making an impression. You can increase or decrease your interest in her eyes with this message. So, when starting work, show your friendliness. Allude to the details of the story you talked about the other day so she can reminisce about how you felt. For example, the other day, she said that at 5 pm, she had an appointment with her friend to go to the movies The other woman. You can text: “hey, hi! Is there a witty girl like me in The Other Woman movie?"Remember that after she replies, you'll continue to rack your brains for interesting texts to tell her. Otherwise, the connection between the two will quickly be extinguished from her side.

And remember that texting back and forth won't solve anything. Because there will come a time when she will get tired of this. So you need to schedule an appointment as soon as possible. What matters is what happens in real life, right?

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What should not be texted?

What should be mentioned in the message is funny, interesting, teasing, etc. What should not be mentioned in the message is complaining, blaming, swearing, negative things .

You want her to be attracted, right? So don't text the above content, because no one wants to hear these stories from you.

Hopefully after reading through the article What to do when she doesn't text back?  You'll find out why she doesn't text you back. From there can draw lessons for the next time, new conquests, new experiences, new interesting ...

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