Dating requires rules. It is inevitable in today's society. As humans, we have so many different personalities, different cultures, or even… dating rules are different.

So what does this rule mean here when everyone has a different one? That's what I mean by general rules for dating. It is a rule that is always true, and you can apply it to anyone, or any object in dating.

If you have heard the phrase dating rules in the past and know about it. Great! But you may need to add any missing ideas. Meanwhile, if you have never heard of it, this is the most appropriate time to consult and learn, thereby avoiding being "exaggerated" in front of women.

This answer is also simple. In dating, if you like the other person, be the one to confess. I don't care if you're a man or a woman or a 3rd gender. Waiting for someone to do what you want is not a good idea, and it's not easy.

It's the 21st century now, don't separate the strong from the weak. If a man is not assertive in all situations, even reserved when confessing, or dare not say it, how can women trust and rely on these men.

2) What should and shouldn't

One of the problems men have with dating, especially on  a first date  , is, “What should we talk about?”

Don't worry, because I'm here to help you with these problems. Remember, DON'T talk about money, religion,  , NOT about ex-girlfriends, politics, dating memories, favorite sports club, why? Since you're so passionate about it, it can lead to forgetting the fact that she's there dating you.

The simple truth is to avoid boring the date, that's all. Boredom is a soul-crusher, it destroys everything. So, if you want to avoid this, let's talk about things like this: Asking for personal information, asking about where you were born and raised, your current life, etc... research". Remember, don't be rushed when asking these questions, be slow, polite, and don't forget to mix humor and wit throughout the date.You need to pay attention to what she says on the date so that you continue to ask questions that stimulate her response. Similarly, if you don't know what to talk about, switch to asking. And it is best to ask interesting questions, like a game.

Once you've joined a game, everything will become much lighter and more interesting for both of you. Even tough questions become much easier.

For example, two people can participate in a question and answer game about "How many love affairs have you had?" Of course, you need to be the first to answer, and don't forget to be witty. Next it's her turn. By doing this, two people will break the barrier and can talk to each other more naturally. But it is recommended, if you are a person who looks back to the past, think of another game, do not apply the above example in your date.

3) Where do we go now?

I've already mentioned this in my first and  second date posts  . But to make it simpler and easier for you, I will reaffirm: You need to take her somewhere to talk, share or interact between two individuals.

Just simple as that! Besides, places that can be interesting to her are also highly recommended. This has to be planned in advance, but it is not possible to let the date happen and then start doing it. By then it was too late.

4) What do men and women expect?

Men expect the following things from women: politeness and grace. End.

And women expect: politeness and safety.

All other things are final options. There's no such thing as a perfect date, sometimes it's not fun, or it's not memorable at all. However, politeness and safety are the two most common standards that you need to show in front of her on a date.

5) When should I call or text?

Also because you and her have exchanged small amounts of bodily fluids, you can call her the next day. Not a text , email, or anything, but a phone call. Regarding text messages the night of the date, you can send a brief message with something like a very interesting date, that she has left a lot of impressions on you.

6) Who pays?

This is considered a rather sensitive issue and is a bit complicated and difficult in dating. So I intentionally put it last.

The issue of who pays it depends on personality, culture, customs, gender, preference, or money.

BUT if it's first dates, according to our Vietnamese culture, it's best to be the one to pay. Women are very sensitive , they pay a lot of attention to this issue, from which to have an initial assessment of your personality. So, leave the best impression possible. On the contrary, once a bad impression is left, the relationship development and later dates will become more difficult and arduous.

After the 3-5th date, if the girl is polite and has feelings for you, she will definitely suggest a 1-1 option divided equally between the two, to help you reduce the burden and worry. For free, many women are even willing to do this on the first session. But remember, the first session, you MUST be the one to pay.

Here are some key rules for dating. In fact, there are quite a few principles, but I only filter out the most important and decisive factors. You don't have to worry about the rest.

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 When it comes to dating or hanging out together,  what is the best situation or time to confess? Indeed, for many people this is a difficult question to answer. But for some people, this is as easy as eating porridge.

Just simple. It's hard for those who find the perfect opportunity and time to confess. While this is relatively easy for those who dare to accept whether she likes them or not? Those are two different extremes. One side is thinking a lot, carefully before acting, and the other side is willing to take risks and act as soon as possible.

So what is the answer to this answer? And how to choose the most appropriate to confess to her, to be able to progress further, and date more?

Before going any further on the instructions and methods, I want to tell you one fact – your confession doesn't mean much to her. Because the star  it? Let's try to think logically for a bit:

So, once she likes you and gets your confession –> Both get the information they want. This is considered a WIN WIN state. But if she doesn't like you, or doesn't have feelings for you, then whatever you say doesn't matter.

After all, your confession only serves as a hint to the problem you and she both want the answer to. Therefore, most people who are willing to take risks get results sooner than others. And from there, it will save you time, to find and date other goals.

However, in this article, I myself do not want you to simply do this in the usual way. You know, there are many other effective methods that you may ignore or never know about.

Attractive body language

The first, which is also very effective when wanting to show that you like her on dates, is a sign of body language. Namely gestures, eyes, facial expressions, postures, etc... All these are worth more than 1000 words.

More specifically, you need to pay attention to your eye contact when communicating with her, how attentively you listen to her, or how you react to her. In this way, you not only show that you are attracted to her, but also make yourself more attractive.

Do not misunderstand and think evil thoughts. In fact, this is a great way to arouse women's emotions during dates. If your hands are soft, all the better – women like men with soft hands.

On dates , sometimes you need to touch her. Those are touches mixed with lightness and quickness. The areas you should touch her body are elbows, hands, shoulders, back, knees. Combine while talking, while taking her somewhere, opening the door, getting in the car, etc.

In fact, this method of touching is applied by experts ( Pickup Artists ) very often and is one of the core methods in dating, dating, or in relationships.

By doing this, you can get her deeper into the relationship, and can help you turn defeat into victory in some cases. However, special care must be taken when doing this work. Vietnam is an Asian country, so her mind is not very open, sometimes it can cause misunderstandings for her in dating. However, the above body areas are all positions that you can "attack", besides, you must perform the same polite attitude, and honest facial expressions to avoid misunderstandings.

Blend into the story

Say "I like you" while you and her are talking on a date, so remember that must be the time when the date is going well. quirky and interesting. Of course, you need to be the one to steer this story in an interesting direction before opening up on the date.

The funny thing is, when she's busy talking, she's focusing on the interesting content you're talking about. Then, after hearing the confession mixed in with this story, it's like you've influenced her over and over again.

In terms of mentality , when rummaging through people's minds on what has passed, it will search forever alone. In terms of real life, she wouldn't be embarrassed to hear these words on a date.

One of the most direct ways to let her know that you're into her is to mention dating more often.For example, "Are you free on Friday night, I want to go to XYZ with you, there are many interesting things". Next, "I know there's a new movie on Tuesday afternoon, let's go see it." From there, will she let you know if she's interested in you?

Pay close attention to her attitude and behavior during encounters. Usually, if she's interested in you, it's easy to go on regular dates. Meanwhile, if she refuses to date, the percentage of girls who are thinking about finding another guy is very high. In this case, you need to use more tests. I will introduce to you in the following articles.

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 Getting a phone number and then going on a date is a fairly simple task for some people, but it is extremely difficult for most. Not everyone has the courage and courage to ask for a number, but not everyone has the courage and courage to successfully apply for a number.

However, getting a phone number is not as difficult as you think. Vietnamese women are quite easygoing and polite to situations where men ask for a number. Besides, in embarrassing situations, they almost don't know how to politely refuse, especially young women. Here are a few basic experiences to ask for a number, so that you can go further with future dates.

Always keep in mind, there's nothing you can do if you're shy and embarrassed (See How to get a girl for a "shy " man ). You also never get a girl's phone number, let alone go on romantic and heart-fluttering dates. As men, we can do anything, asking for a number or going on a date are just simple things that anyone can do – just keep that in mind. Next, boldly ask for her number, even if you feel timid, scared, or like the world is shaking, hide them and speak as confidently as possible.

Next, if her posture looks like she's used to this, don't be too disappointed. Women have to do this job many times with other men every day, so don't worry too much. You see, if she's used to this, a lot of other people have asked for her number. And you, why are you so shy?, keep asking for her number, maybe you will have a chance to date her in the future.

An excuse to ask for a number

This is the most common method that men often do to arrange a date in the not too distant future. While talking, pretend you have urgent business to do. When waving, ask as naturally as you can "I have urgent business, we'll talk later, what's your phone number?", don't forget to give her your phone. he does it himself.

Talk for a while

Talk to your daughter for about 5-10 minutes, after a few minutes, she will know that you are friendly, cheerful, and mean nothing but asking for a number. They certainly don't think you're going to date her in the future. Remember that giving numbers is a very normal thing that women have to do every day. So there's no reason to refuse, as long as you don't appear too obnoxious and ungrateful in front of her.

Text her 1 minute later

Just because you got her number doesn't mean she will have yours. So a few interesting texts will make her remember you, and save your number, so if you call her and she doesn't listen, it will be very rude. On your side, you are also sure that she will pick up the phone if the contact is saved, while if it is an unknown number, in your opinion, will she pick up the phone?Text her a few lines such as "It was fun talking to you today, when you have free time, let's talk again, I'm the bald guy who just asked for your number. Bye!” Don't even think about dating right now. Currently, you just need to ask for a number for easy communication -> OUT.

If you can think of any other interesting messages, all the better, women love the fun that men can bring. Furthermore with this message , communicating with her in the future will be more natural and easier for you.

Don't be sad if you don't get the number

If you don't have your daughter's number, don't be sad or miserable. Once you have boldly approached to ask for the number of girls, it means that you have succeeded, and there is no mistake. The reason now depends on the muscle object.

There are countless reasons why she can't give you her number, maybe she just encountered a harasser, or her lover simply gets annoyed when she texts or calls back and forth. another guy, as simple as someone else asking for your number, you also feel annoying right? So you should respect her , whatever the reason, don't force yourself, there are so many other options available to you? The important thing is that you dare to move on or not?

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 Reading women's body language is one of the core skills for success in conquest.

Once you understand a woman's body language, you can know what she's thinking, what she wants, so you can prepare the next option in your head.

I'm rekindling the idea of ​​doing a series of articles on body language in Myself, similar to what I did with the Girl's Learning series . However, currently, the number of interested people is not much, so it will probably be postponed for another time.

Ok, so if you are looking to practice this skill. Check out some basic tips on reading women's body language.

Reading body language doesn't just involve observing the other person's actions or gestures, but it also states. So, before looking for positive signs from her, you must first determine what state she is in?

For example, if a man is in a state of restlessness and anxiety, crossing his arms across his chest means he is in a defensive position. Meanwhile, a person standing on the big stage with his arms crossed in front of his chest, he is now showing himself as a confident person, not like the above idea.

As another example, a woman might touch you a lot while talking. As I said and you know, this is a sign that she likes you. However, if she does this to all the people around her, men or women, then it's basically just her habit.

Uncomfortable sign

The first thing you need to know is that when a woman suddenly falls into a "freeze" state, that's when she feels uncomfortable, overly anxious, or loses confidence.

For example: You and her are talking about something, her legs are shaking steadily, then suddenly stop suddenly. That's when she falls into one of the three feelings above.

Basically, "freezing" is also one of the quite interesting signs. If while you touch her body (while making eye contact) she falls into the above state, then that's a sign that you can "escalate" in this game already.

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Positive signs

The more positive language you see from her, the more she agrees with you.

So what is positive body language?

If she's face to face with you at a close distance and doesn't feel uncomfortable when you approach, that's a positive sign. Meanwhile, when you approach her, and she leans back slightly or to the side, it's not a positive sign.

The interesting thing I mean here is when women say or behave in a certain way that doesn't agree. You can use your NOT positive body language to say no. This action shows that you are a man of many values ​​and the type of man that women want.

Barriers

Similar to positive body language, barriers can also be a way to tell if her level of arousal is rising or falling.

Accordingly, if she likes or feels comfortable talking to you, or just wants the opportunity to meet you, then that's when she is removing her own barriers. And if she feels uncomfortable or boring around you, that's when she's building more barriers for herself.So what is this barrier? It can be gestures like crossing your arms over your chest, holding something in front of your chest (drink, folder, bag, etc.). When drinking together she can put a glass of water between the two of you, or simply sit with her legs crossed, but in directions that are not directed at you.

Signs she's flirting with you

This is a sign that any man likes. Some of these actions or gestures include strong eye contact, frequent brushing of her hair back, stroking her neck or upper chest with her hands, or if you're more observant you'll see her pupils dilate. more than usual, more observant you will see her eyes look like water seeping through.

But as mentioned at the beginning of the article, you also have to pay attention to her status. If the conversation is having a good time, it's one thing, and when two people are arguing , that's another matter.

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 Have you ever been in such a situation? That's right, she didn't text back.

You just approached a girl, you two have an interesting conversation for a few minutes. She is attractive, speaks intelligently, and is quite witty, almost exactly the type of person you would still want to be. After all, one way or another you get her phone number , but there is one thing…

She doesn't text back when you text her .

Or she just replied curtly the first time, the second time… Then she didn't text back. It was as if she was kidnapped or didn't exist in this world.

Obviously you will ask why? OK, maybe she's busy. So you wait for another time to continue texting. But then 1 day, 2 days… Finally you find out that she rejected you, flatly refused.

Why didn't she text back?

In most cases, when she doesn't text you back, it's because you didn't create attraction on the first date. Obviously, she could have just been visited by a thief, but this is just an excuse for you to comfort yourself. In fact, she deliberately did not reply to avoid being disturbed by you. So it is important to remember:

Make a good impression when asking for a phone number

She obviously won't know who you are, or what your personality is like when you first meet her, unless you've mastered all the steps in the girls' learning series that Myself provides.

So it should be said that first impressions are extremely important at this moment. Be friendly, polite, courteous, but never brash or brazen when asking for her number. Because she knows all too well that you plan to ask her out, have a drink, watch a movie, or whatever in the future. So, if she doesn't show any interest, you'll know that contacting her in the future is a waste of time.In my opinion, you should state your intention directly when asking for a phone number . For example: “You are very witty, I would love to talk to you. Now I have to go, next Saturday I will contact you” (gives the phone to the girl to dial). Would you like to go to XYZ to do the ZYX? After probing, although she won't answer honestly, you can observe her body language to see how interested she is.

As follows. If she looks happy or giggles as she dials the number, it's a sign that she has a good impression of you. And if she hesitates or refuses, it's best to fall quickly to save time.

Make sure you text at the right time

Most or not all women share the same mindset, "I don't want to be seen as easy". So rest assured that she will never text you first. But she will wait for you to text back. So when is a good time to do this work?

Women always want and want to be pursued by men. So don't text her too soon (except for direct messages after asking for her number). If you just met her a few hours ago, just get busy and forget about her. The most appropriate time to text her is 24 hours away, of course, you should not let her wait too long because she will gradually lose interest in you. The maximum average of this period is 3 days.

Let her wait a bit, let her feel a little insecure, let her feel a little uneasy inside, then by the time she receives your message, her heart will be open. flags in the stomach.

What should I text for the first time?

The first message is also another important factor in making an impression. You can increase or decrease your interest in her eyes with this message. So, when starting work, show your friendliness. Allude to the details of the story you talked about the other day so she can reminisce about how you felt. For example, the other day, she said that at 5 pm, she had an appointment with her friend to go to the movies The other woman. You can text: “hey, hi! Is there a witty girl like me in The Other Woman movie?"Remember that after she replies, you'll continue to rack your brains for interesting texts to tell her. Otherwise, the connection between the two will quickly be extinguished from her side.

And remember that texting back and forth won't solve anything. Because there will come a time when she will get tired of this. So you need to schedule an appointment as soon as possible. What matters is what happens in real life, right?

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What should not be texted?

What should be mentioned in the message is funny, interesting, teasing, etc. What should not be mentioned in the message is complaining, blaming, swearing, negative things .

You want her to be attracted, right? So don't text the above content, because no one wants to hear these stories from you.

Hopefully after reading through the article What to do when she doesn't text back?  You'll find out why she doesn't text you back. From there can draw lessons for the next time, new conquests, new experiences, new interesting ...

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 The story of girls liking bad boys and dating the rich goes on forever.

Women choosing bad boys and then ignoring good guys  is a common occurrence. Even that was a long time ago, not just now.

Sadly, this situation is still happening everywhere. In movies, in romance novels, to real life. Such as company, society, school, etc.

After all, the bad guy is always the winner in dating and competition.

It's not that I want to turn you into a bad guy after reading this article.

In fact, bad boys have a lot of bad points that women can hardly accept after sinking deeply. And there is no lasting love story when the bad guy is really both bad and bad.

This article is not about that. What I want to discuss are the "striking" aspects of bad boys in front of women? Also, why do girls like bad boys? From there, you can learn and improve yourself.

Girls like bad boys because they feel nervous around these guys.

They always enjoy and desire to meet with the brother he strange and mysterious. They really like that type of person. Because getting the difference of these guys than men  pulses around.

Above all, women love adventure and want to discover the mystery emanating from that man. This is why proper spread and daughter always nervous and glass previously welcomed their hunts. Something they do not include hours to find the best dating boys.

Women have a chance to tame

Girls like bad boys because they have a chance to tame?

It sounds silly and quite fictional, but from a psychological point of view, this is the correct statement. Women are female, they are born with maternal instincts. Nurturing and teaching children to grow up is their survival instinct.

When dating bad boys, women also want to tame them to become better. They see it as their duty, and when they tame bad boys, women consider it to be the greatest success in life.

Let's not talk about this because there are many other factors that affect the final result. We will discuss in another post. However, taming bad boys always makes women excited and full of energy.

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Bad boys have strong masculinity

As mentioned above, women are female so they are only attracted to people of different genders, in other words women like to date strong masculine models .

But not just being big or muscular makes you a strong man. Whether your signal is strong or not depends on the decision you make in every situation. What bad boys do very well because of their high selfishness.

After all, girls like bad boys because of that charming personality.

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Great bedmate

Men love making love and so do women. If women have loved bad boys before, they will have a hard time falling in love with good guys in the next relationships.

Partly because bad boys are very good at scoring points against women. The rest is because they can't forget making love to these men.

This problem can hardly be explained by anyone other than the insiders. Maybe it's the great poses , or the vulgar words that bad boys spit out in bed like that.

Not all women like this , but of course one the like, they will be hard to forget this feeling.

Conclusion

Girls like bad boys? Part of it is exactly that. Because they have their own qualities that make women feel attractive. However, in the deep and long term, these are all toxic relationships that women should try to avoid and forget.

You know, you really don't have to be a jerk to win women over. If you want to know the exact steps to conquer a girl. If you want to know the techniques to seduce a girl. Check out Unraveling the Mysteries of Women to find out how I and the successful people out there are doing.

 In what do women really want from men? I have discussed this quite clearly. Those are all things a woman needs in a man. However, for "beautiful" women, their requirements are higher, and the list is more extensive than for an average woman.

By chance in the past week I met quite a few beautiful girls, and I proposed the question "what do pretty girls like in men?". This question gives them a lot of fun and excitement to answer. I have rounded up and excluded a few points that are not really necessary and included in the list below.

She wants to discover you

Beautiful girls don't think "If I were his girlfriend, what would happen?" but she thinks the opposite, "What if he's my boyfriend?", "What's this guy capable of? Anything interesting? Confident? Is there much value?”.

As a beautiful girl, she has good communication skills. Why is that? Because pretty girls are always surrounded by men, they automatically train their communication skills with friends of the opposite sex for free. Most pretty girls rarely have problems with communication, so she can deftly get to know you and explore you however she wants.

Stop thinking about sex

Not to mention beautiful girls, ordinary women also rarely think about relationships. What they want is all about men… Hobbies, passions, personalities, abilities, etc. Men on the other hand only think about sex when meeting women , so you need to. Be wary of this, and don't impose your thoughts on women.

Know how to dress

Don't dress in the same style every day, change it up a bit when attending different events. Just because you like a shirt doesn't mean you have to wear a shirt when you go on a picnic. Similarly, if you love the healthy look of a t-shirt, it doesn't mean that when you go to a party you also dress like that.

Women like men who stand out from the crowd, besides having a sense of humor, fun, etc. Make yourself stand out from the inside out in front of women.

Humor is especially important

Making a girl smile is what most men do to get attention. Indeed, this is also a great method and should be actively used.

Don't ask too much

Forget asking "general" questions, and instead ask questions related to her passions, interests, personality, values, and beliefs. These factors affect her mind

Respect is the key to getting started

You have to be respectful when talking to her, or anyone you talk to. This really hits women, because so many men these days talk in a disrespectful way to them. For example, teasing excessively, saying rude sentences to get her attention, or bringing a strange girl to make a joke in the crowd, etc....

In love with something

When talking to women about passion, you should talk for hours. It will affect her enjoyment. In melodramatic films, when men talk about passion, women often stare and sometimes smile. That's when she showed interest in the man.

Keep eye contact

Remember to make eye contact with anyone. I have said it over and over again. Never look away to a distant place when facing her. She will quickly see you as lacking confidence, and poor communication.

More rational than women

There is no girl who says, "I like the type of man whose reason is weak, who can be easily manipulated by me". They always say “I like a guy who is brave, strong, and can do anything”. Women are more emotional and men are more rational. So don't compare your reason with hers, because men already have the upper hand.

Pleasant smell

Perfumes are now sold everywhere, from the expensive to the cheap. I advise you to invest in yourself a perfume bottle, small 30ml bottles cost about less than 1 million VND, for many people without income this may be a problem, but in the end its benefits bring. is a lot.

Confident

There must be an element of confidence here, of course. I have mentioned this point over and over again in my posts.

You need to build your trust in front of new women. Don't just chat happily with her and then go on to chat with another girl right in front of her. This can make her jealous and will be beneficial at first. But believe me, it will be troublesome later on.

Fancy approach

The more strange you make her, the more she will keep an eye on you. Especially the approaches that scared her a bit at first, then made her smile and relieve her stress. These methods are used a lot by men today.

Don't stress when talking to her

When men talk to women, they are inherently nervous and scared. So if you look equally stressed, things will hardly work out in a good way. Relax a little, things will be much better for both of you.

Women seek more than material things

Can you seduce a girl by showing her that you have a Rolex, a diamond-encrusted iPhone, an expensive car, and are ready to buy her the best outfits Beautiful girl looking for a lover or supplier? . Fortunately, however, there are many other women who are not looking forward to these things and are looking for something called a "real man" that you can improve and build on.

Above are all the factors that beautiful girls like in men. It's not new, but it's something you need to know and improve on.

Good luck!