Dating requires rules. It is inevitable in today's society. As humans, we have so many different personalities, different cultures, or even… dating rules are different.

So what does this rule mean here when everyone has a different one? That's what I mean by general rules for dating. It is a rule that is always true, and you can apply it to anyone, or any object in dating.

If you have heard the phrase dating rules in the past and know about it. Great! But you may need to add any missing ideas. Meanwhile, if you have never heard of it, this is the most appropriate time to consult and learn, thereby avoiding being "exaggerated" in front of women.

This answer is also simple. In dating, if you like the other person, be the one to confess. I don't care if you're a man or a woman or a 3rd gender. Waiting for someone to do what you want is not a good idea, and it's not easy.

It's the 21st century now, don't separate the strong from the weak. If a man is not assertive in all situations, even reserved when confessing, or dare not say it, how can women trust and rely on these men.

2) What should and shouldn't

One of the problems men have with dating, especially on  a first date  , is, “What should we talk about?”

Don't worry, because I'm here to help you with these problems. Remember, DON'T talk about money, religion,  , NOT about ex-girlfriends, politics, dating memories, favorite sports club, why? Since you're so passionate about it, it can lead to forgetting the fact that she's there dating you.

The simple truth is to avoid boring the date, that's all. Boredom is a soul-crusher, it destroys everything. So, if you want to avoid this, let's talk about things like this: Asking for personal information, asking about where you were born and raised, your current life, etc... research". Remember, don't be rushed when asking these questions, be slow, polite, and don't forget to mix humor and wit throughout the date.You need to pay attention to what she says on the date so that you continue to ask questions that stimulate her response. Similarly, if you don't know what to talk about, switch to asking. And it is best to ask interesting questions, like a game.

Once you've joined a game, everything will become much lighter and more interesting for both of you. Even tough questions become much easier.

For example, two people can participate in a question and answer game about "How many love affairs have you had?" Of course, you need to be the first to answer, and don't forget to be witty. Next it's her turn. By doing this, two people will break the barrier and can talk to each other more naturally. But it is recommended, if you are a person who looks back to the past, think of another game, do not apply the above example in your date.

3) Where do we go now?

I've already mentioned this in my first and  second date posts  . But to make it simpler and easier for you, I will reaffirm: You need to take her somewhere to talk, share or interact between two individuals.

Just simple as that! Besides, places that can be interesting to her are also highly recommended. This has to be planned in advance, but it is not possible to let the date happen and then start doing it. By then it was too late.

4) What do men and women expect?

Men expect the following things from women: politeness and grace. End.

And women expect: politeness and safety.

All other things are final options. There's no such thing as a perfect date, sometimes it's not fun, or it's not memorable at all. However, politeness and safety are the two most common standards that you need to show in front of her on a date.

5) When should I call or text?

Also because you and her have exchanged small amounts of bodily fluids, you can call her the next day. Not a text , email, or anything, but a phone call. Regarding text messages the night of the date, you can send a brief message with something like a very interesting date, that she has left a lot of impressions on you.

6) Who pays?

This is considered a rather sensitive issue and is a bit complicated and difficult in dating. So I intentionally put it last.

The issue of who pays it depends on personality, culture, customs, gender, preference, or money.

BUT if it's first dates, according to our Vietnamese culture, it's best to be the one to pay. Women are very sensitive , they pay a lot of attention to this issue, from which to have an initial assessment of your personality. So, leave the best impression possible. On the contrary, once a bad impression is left, the relationship development and later dates will become more difficult and arduous.

After the 3-5th date, if the girl is polite and has feelings for you, she will definitely suggest a 1-1 option divided equally between the two, to help you reduce the burden and worry. For free, many women are even willing to do this on the first session. But remember, the first session, you MUST be the one to pay.

Here are some key rules for dating. In fact, there are quite a few principles, but I only filter out the most important and decisive factors. You don't have to worry about the rest.

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