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How to read her body language

 Reading women's body language is one of the core skills for success in conquest.

Once you understand a woman's body language, you can know what she's thinking, what she wants, so you can prepare the next option in your head.

I'm rekindling the idea of ​​doing a series of articles on body language in Myself, similar to what I did with the Girl's Learning series However, currently, the number of interested people is not much, so it will probably be postponed for another time.

Ok, so if you are looking to practice this skill. Check out some basic tips on reading women's body language.

How to read body language?

Reading body language doesn't just involve observing the other person's actions or gestures, but it also states. So, before looking for positive signs from her, you must first determine what state she is in?

For example, if a man is in a state of restlessness and anxiety, crossing his arms across his chest means he is in a defensive position. Meanwhile, a person standing on the big stage with his arms crossed in front of his chest, he is now showing himself as a confident person, not like the above idea.

As another example, a woman might touch you a lot while talking. As I said and you know, this is a sign that she likes you. However, if she does this to all the people around her, men or women, then it's basically just her habit.



Uncomfortable sign

The first thing you need to know is that when a woman suddenly falls into a "freeze" state, that's when she feels uncomfortable, overly anxious, or loses confidence.

For example: You and her are talking about something, her legs are shaking steadily, then suddenly stop suddenly. That's when she falls into one of the three feelings above.

Basically, "freezing" is also one of the quite interesting signs. If while you touch her body (while making eye contact) she falls into the above state, then that's a sign that you can "escalate" in this game already.

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Positive signs

The more positive language you see from her, the more she agrees with you.

So what is positive body language?

If she's face to face with you at a close distance and doesn't feel uncomfortable when you approach, that's a positive sign. Meanwhile, when you approach her, and she leans back slightly or to the side, it's not a positive sign.

The interesting thing I mean here is when women say or behave in a certain way that doesn't agree. You can use your NOT positive body language to say no. This action shows that you are a man of many values ​​and the type of man that women want.

Barriers

Similar to positive body language, barriers can also be a way to tell if her level of arousal is rising or falling.

Accordingly, if she likes or feels comfortable talking to you, or just wants the opportunity to meet you, then that's when she is removing her own barriers. And if she feels uncomfortable or boring around you, that's when she's building more barriers for herself.So what is this barrier? It can be gestures like crossing your arms over your chest, holding something in front of your chest (drink, folder, bag, etc.). When drinking together she can put a glass of water between the two of you, or simply sit with her legs crossed, but in directions that are not directed at you.

Signs she's flirting with you

This is a sign that any man likes. Some of these actions or gestures include strong eye contact, frequent brushing of her hair back, stroking her neck or upper chest with her hands, or if you're more observant you'll see her pupils dilate. more than usual, more observant you will see her eyes look like water seeping through.

But as mentioned at the beginning of the article, you also have to pay attention to her status. If the conversation is having a good time, it's one thing, and when two people are arguing , that's another matter.

The above article discusses some of the basic types of women's language and how to recognize it. If you want to know more tips on body language and how to conquer women, follow Chinh Em dot Com daily.

What to do when she doesn't text back? Should you be upset?

 Have you ever been in such a situation? That's right, she didn't text back.

You just approached a girl, you two have an interesting conversation for a few minutes. She is attractive, speaks intelligently, and is quite witty, almost exactly the type of person you would still want to be. After all, one way or another you get her phone number , but there is one thing…

She doesn't text back when you text her .

Or she just replied curtly the first time, the second time… Then she didn't text back. It was as if she was kidnapped or didn't exist in this world.

Obviously you will ask why? OK, maybe she's busy. So you wait for another time to continue texting. But then 1 day, 2 days… Finally you find out that she rejected you, flatly refused.

Why didn't she text back?

In most cases, when she doesn't text you back, it's because you didn't create attraction on the first date. Obviously, she could have just been visited by a thief, but this is just an excuse for you to comfort yourself. In fact, she deliberately did not reply to avoid being disturbed by you. So it is important to remember:

Make a good impression when asking for a phone number

She obviously won't know who you are, or what your personality is like when you first meet her, unless you've mastered all the steps in the girls' learning series that Myself provides.

So it should be said that first impressions are extremely important at this moment. Be friendly, polite, courteous, but never brash or brazen when asking for her number. Because she knows all too well that you plan to ask her out, have a drink, watch a movie, or whatever in the future. So, if she doesn't show any interest, you'll know that contacting her in the future is a waste of time.In my opinion, you should state your intention directly when asking for a phone number . For example: “You are very witty, I would love to talk to you. Now I have to go, next Saturday I will contact you” (gives the phone to the girl to dial). Would you like to go to XYZ to do the ZYX? After probing, although she won't answer honestly, you can observe her body language to see how interested she is.

As follows. If she looks happy or giggles as she dials the number, it's a sign that she has a good impression of you. And if she hesitates or refuses, it's best to fall quickly to save time.



Make sure you text at the right time

Most or not all women share the same mindset, "I don't want to be seen as easy". So rest assured that she will never text you first. But she will wait for you to text back. So when is a good time to do this work?

Women always want and want to be pursued by men. So don't text her too soon (except for direct messages after asking for her number). If you just met her a few hours ago, just get busy and forget about her. The most appropriate time to text her is 24 hours away, of course, you should not let her wait too long because she will gradually lose interest in you. The maximum average of this period is 3 days.

Let her wait a bit, let her feel a little insecure, let her feel a little uneasy inside, then by the time she receives your message, her heart will be open. flags in the stomach.

What should I text for the first time?

The first message is also another important factor in making an impression. You can increase or decrease your interest in her eyes with this message. So, when starting work, show your friendliness. Allude to the details of the story you talked about the other day so she can reminisce about how you felt. For example, the other day, she said that at 5 pm, she had an appointment with her friend to go to the movies The other woman. You can text: “hey, hi! Is there a witty girl like me in The Other Woman movie?"Remember that after she replies, you'll continue to rack your brains for interesting texts to tell her. Otherwise, the connection between the two will quickly be extinguished from her side.

And remember that texting back and forth won't solve anything. Because there will come a time when she will get tired of this. So you need to schedule an appointment as soon as possible. What matters is what happens in real life, right?

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What should not be texted?

What should be mentioned in the message is funny, interesting, teasing, etc. What should not be mentioned in the message is complaining, blaming, swearing, negative things .

You want her to be attracted, right? So don't text the above content, because no one wants to hear these stories from you.

Hopefully after reading through the article What to do when she doesn't text back?  You'll find out why she doesn't text you back. From there can draw lessons for the next time, new conquests, new experiences, new interesting ...

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Do girls like bad boys and want to be tamed?

 The story of girls liking bad boys and dating the rich goes on forever.

Women choosing bad boys and then ignoring good guys  is a common occurrence. Even that was a long time ago, not just now.

Sadly, this situation is still happening everywhere. In movies, in romance novels, to real life. Such as company, society, school, etc.

After all, the bad guy is always the winner in dating and competition.

It's not that I want to turn you into a bad guy after reading this article.

In fact, bad boys have a lot of bad points that women can hardly accept after sinking deeply. And there is no lasting love story when the bad guy is really both bad and bad.

This article is not about that. What I want to discuss are the "striking" aspects of bad boys in front of women? Also, why do girls like bad boys? From there, you can learn and improve yourself.

Girls like bad boys because they feel nervous


Girls like bad boys because they feel nervous around these guys.

They always enjoy and desire to meet with the brother he strange and mysterious. They really like that type of person. Because getting the difference of these guys than men  pulses around.

Above all, women love adventure and want to discover the mystery emanating from that man. This is why proper spread and daughter always nervous and glass previously welcomed their hunts. Something they do not include hours to find the best dating boys.

Women have a chance to tame

Girls like bad boys because they have a chance to tame?

It sounds silly and quite fictional, but from a psychological point of view, this is the correct statement. Women are female, they are born with maternal instincts. Nurturing and teaching children to grow up is their survival instinct.

When dating bad boys, women also want to tame them to become better. They see it as their duty, and when they tame bad boys, women consider it to be the greatest success in life.

Let's not talk about this because there are many other factors that affect the final result. We will discuss in another post. However, taming bad boys always makes women excited and full of energy.

READ: Do women like shy men?

Bad boys have strong masculinity

As mentioned above, women are female so they are only attracted to people of different genders, in other words women like to date strong masculine models .

But not just being big or muscular makes you a strong man. Whether your signal is strong or not depends on the decision you make in every situation. What bad boys do very well because of their high selfishness.

After all, girls like bad boys because of that charming personality.

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Great bedmate

Men love making love and so do women. If women have loved bad boys before, they will have a hard time falling in love with good guys in the next relationships.

Partly because bad boys are very good at scoring points against women. The rest is because they can't forget making love to these men.

This problem can hardly be explained by anyone other than the insiders. Maybe it's the great poses , or the vulgar words that bad boys spit out in bed like that.

Not all women like this , but of course one the like, they will be hard to forget this feeling.

Conclusion

Girls like bad boys? Part of it is exactly that. Because they have their own qualities that make women feel attractive. However, in the deep and long term, these are all toxic relationships that women should try to avoid and forget.

You know, you really don't have to be a jerk to win women over. If you want to know the exact steps to conquer a girl. If you want to know the techniques to seduce a girl. Check out Unraveling the Mysteries of Women to find out how I and the successful people out there are doing.

What do pretty girls like in men?

 In what do women really want from men? I have discussed this quite clearly. Those are all things a woman needs in a man. However, for "beautiful" women, their requirements are higher, and the list is more extensive than for an average woman.

By chance in the past week I met quite a few beautiful girls, and I proposed the question "what do pretty girls like in men?". This question gives them a lot of fun and excitement to answer. I have rounded up and excluded a few points that are not really necessary and included in the list below.

So what do pretty girls really want?

She wants to discover you

Beautiful girls don't think "If I were his girlfriend, what would happen?" but she thinks the opposite, "What if he's my boyfriend?", "What's this guy capable of? Anything interesting? Confident? Is there much value?”.





As a beautiful girl, she has good communication skills. Why is that? Because pretty girls are always surrounded by men, they automatically train their communication skills with friends of the opposite sex for free. Most pretty girls rarely have problems with communication, so she can deftly get to know you and explore you however she wants.

Stop thinking about sex

Not to mention beautiful girls, ordinary women also rarely think about relationships. What they want is all about men… Hobbies, passions, personalities, abilities, etc. Men on the other hand only think about sex when meeting women , so you need to. Be wary of this, and don't impose your thoughts on women.

Know how to dress

Don't dress in the same style every day, change it up a bit when attending different events. Just because you like a shirt doesn't mean you have to wear a shirt when you go on a picnic. Similarly, if you love the healthy look of a t-shirt, it doesn't mean that when you go to a party you also dress like that.

Outstanding but not noisy

Women like men who stand out from the crowd, besides having a sense of humor, fun, etc. Make yourself stand out from the inside out in front of women.

Humor is especially important

Making a girl smile is what most men do to get attention. Indeed, this is also a great method and should be actively used.

Don't ask too much

Forget asking "general" questions, and instead ask questions related to her passions, interests, personality, values, and beliefs. These factors affect her mind

Respect is the key to getting started

You have to be respectful when talking to her, or anyone you talk to. This really hits women, because so many men these days talk in a disrespectful way to them. For example, teasing excessively, saying rude sentences to get her attention, or bringing a strange girl to make a joke in the crowd, etc....

In love with something

When talking to women about passion, you should talk for hours. It will affect her enjoyment. In melodramatic films, when men talk about passion, women often stare and sometimes smile. That's when she showed interest in the man.

Keep eye contact

Remember to make eye contact with anyone. I have said it over and over again. Never look away to a distant place when facing her. She will quickly see you as lacking confidence, and poor communication.

More rational than women

There is no girl who says, "I like the type of man whose reason is weak, who can be easily manipulated by me". They always say “I like a guy who is brave, strong, and can do anything”. Women are more emotional and men are more rational. So don't compare your reason with hers, because men already have the upper hand.

Pleasant smell

Perfumes are now sold everywhere, from the expensive to the cheap. I advise you to invest in yourself a perfume bottle, small 30ml bottles cost about less than 1 million VND, for many people without income this may be a problem, but in the end its benefits bring. is a lot.

Confident

There must be an element of confidence here, of course. I have mentioned this point over and over again in my posts.

Building trust in front of new women

You need to build your trust in front of new women. Don't just chat happily with her and then go on to chat with another girl right in front of her. This can make her jealous and will be beneficial at first. But believe me, it will be troublesome later on.

Fancy approach

The more strange you make her, the more she will keep an eye on you. Especially the approaches that scared her a bit at first, then made her smile and relieve her stress. These methods are used a lot by men today.

Don't stress when talking to her

When men talk to women, they are inherently nervous and scared. So if you look equally stressed, things will hardly work out in a good way. Relax a little, things will be much better for both of you.

Women seek more than material things

Can you seduce a girl by showing her that you have a Rolex, a diamond-encrusted iPhone, an expensive car, and are ready to buy her the best outfits Beautiful girl looking for a lover or supplier? Fortunately, however, there are many other women who are not looking forward to these things and are looking for something called a "real man" that you can improve and build on.

Above are all the factors that beautiful girls like in men. It's not new, but it's something you need to know and improve on.

Good luck!

How to deal with cocky girls?

 Hot girls are everywhere. From schools, offices, on the streets, bars, shopping malls, bars, clubs, etc.. There is one thing in common that all girls have pretty eye-catching beauty, besides also because of arrogance and arrogance. flirt, so these girls are often noticed by many men. Most are curious, want to learn, even many people still ... secretly miss stealing girls.

However, girls are usually quite "chic", so having to contact or have regular relationships with these girls is not a pleasant thing at all. Here are some methods to help you deal with snobby girls.

Forget flattering her

One thing you need to know is that swanky girls are flattered and flattered everywhere. Maybe these guys are attracted to her, maybe they're instinctively flirting with girls, or they simply just want to get the attention of hot girls.

So, what you need to do is do the opposite of what everyone around you is doing to make a difference. The difference here is to treat her no differently than everyone else. That's right, treat her like a normal or less than average person. No matter how beautiful she is, how hot she is, how attractive she is, just ignore her body.



Being gay in front of slutty girls

Never be shy, timid, or shy around a smug girl. On the contrary, you need to behave strongly, even a little harshly in front of the fancy girl. Yes, a lot of slutty girls like this kind of reaction. Because why? Because no one dared to do that to them. They are all shy, stooped, and wary of girls.

But don't be too harsh, be careful your behavior will turn into grumpy or sarcastic. That will make you rude.

READ: How to talk to girls?

Treat as usual

As mentioned above, don't try to be polite, nice, or anything in front of slutty girls. Just behave like anyone you meet in real life, besides that what you react to outside needs to be a bit harsh. You need to let her know that she's just a human, not a princess or a beauty queen.

However, you still have to be respectful and polite to her, don't let things go astray because it may ruin your relationship with the girl, and make others think badly of you.

Don't waste your time with sluts

Don't waste your time talking to a hot girl no matter how pretty, attractive, or hot she is. Go find other girls who are friendlier, happier, you respect her – she respects you back.

High-class girls are mostly selfish girls, so they never become ideal lovers for men. Even if you want to kiss her, going to bed with her is not an easy thing.

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I follow you, and read all GMBAPD books up to this point for 1 year. At first I was very lacking in confidence and low self-esteem and many things, until one day I fell in love with each other and I played the role of a good guy and then everyone understood. I went to google and asked why women don't love good guys, then kicked in my own post "don't remember what it is" and read all the articles on wets and started buying books 1,2,3. While reading and experiencing each day until now, I feel my confidence from understanding myself, accepting myself, from knowledge in books and experiences in life, constantly learning and experiencing. Wish you and everyone watching develop well day by day as the saying "must be the best version of yourself"

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