Dating requires rules. It is inevitable in today's society. As humans, we have so many different personalities, different cultures, or even… dating rules are different.

So what does this rule mean here when everyone has a different one? That's what I mean by general rules for dating. It is a rule that is always true, and you can apply it to anyone, or any object in dating.

If you have heard the phrase dating rules in the past and know about it. Great! But you may need to add any missing ideas. Meanwhile, if you have never heard of it, this is the most appropriate time to consult and learn, thereby avoiding being "exaggerated" in front of women.

This answer is also simple. In dating, if you like the other person, be the one to confess. I don't care if you're a man or a woman or a 3rd gender. Waiting for someone to do what you want is not a good idea, and it's not easy.

It's the 21st century now, don't separate the strong from the weak. If a man is not assertive in all situations, even reserved when confessing, or dare not say it, how can women trust and rely on these men.

2) What should and shouldn't

One of the problems men have with dating, especially on  a first date  , is, “What should we talk about?”

Don't worry, because I'm here to help you with these problems. Remember, DON'T talk about money, religion,  , NOT about ex-girlfriends, politics, dating memories, favorite sports club, why? Since you're so passionate about it, it can lead to forgetting the fact that she's there dating you.

The simple truth is to avoid boring the date, that's all. Boredom is a soul-crusher, it destroys everything. So, if you want to avoid this, let's talk about things like this: Asking for personal information, asking about where you were born and raised, your current life, etc... research". Remember, don't be rushed when asking these questions, be slow, polite, and don't forget to mix humor and wit throughout the date.You need to pay attention to what she says on the date so that you continue to ask questions that stimulate her response. Similarly, if you don't know what to talk about, switch to asking. And it is best to ask interesting questions, like a game.

Once you've joined a game, everything will become much lighter and more interesting for both of you. Even tough questions become much easier.

For example, two people can participate in a question and answer game about "How many love affairs have you had?" Of course, you need to be the first to answer, and don't forget to be witty. Next it's her turn. By doing this, two people will break the barrier and can talk to each other more naturally. But it is recommended, if you are a person who looks back to the past, think of another game, do not apply the above example in your date.

3) Where do we go now?

I've already mentioned this in my first and  second date posts  . But to make it simpler and easier for you, I will reaffirm: You need to take her somewhere to talk, share or interact between two individuals.

Just simple as that! Besides, places that can be interesting to her are also highly recommended. This has to be planned in advance, but it is not possible to let the date happen and then start doing it. By then it was too late.

4) What do men and women expect?

Men expect the following things from women: politeness and grace. End.

And women expect: politeness and safety.

All other things are final options. There's no such thing as a perfect date, sometimes it's not fun, or it's not memorable at all. However, politeness and safety are the two most common standards that you need to show in front of her on a date.

5) When should I call or text?

Also because you and her have exchanged small amounts of bodily fluids, you can call her the next day. Not a text , email, or anything, but a phone call. Regarding text messages the night of the date, you can send a brief message with something like a very interesting date, that she has left a lot of impressions on you.

6) Who pays?

This is considered a rather sensitive issue and is a bit complicated and difficult in dating. So I intentionally put it last.

The issue of who pays it depends on personality, culture, customs, gender, preference, or money.

BUT if it's first dates, according to our Vietnamese culture, it's best to be the one to pay. Women are very sensitive , they pay a lot of attention to this issue, from which to have an initial assessment of your personality. So, leave the best impression possible. On the contrary, once a bad impression is left, the relationship development and later dates will become more difficult and arduous.

After the 3-5th date, if the girl is polite and has feelings for you, she will definitely suggest a 1-1 option divided equally between the two, to help you reduce the burden and worry. For free, many women are even willing to do this on the first session. But remember, the first session, you MUST be the one to pay.

Here are some key rules for dating. In fact, there are quite a few principles, but I only filter out the most important and decisive factors. You don't have to worry about the rest.

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 When it comes to dating or hanging out together,  what is the best situation or time to confess? Indeed, for many people this is a difficult question to answer. But for some people, this is as easy as eating porridge.

Just simple. It's hard for those who find the perfect opportunity and time to confess. While this is relatively easy for those who dare to accept whether she likes them or not? Those are two different extremes. One side is thinking a lot, carefully before acting, and the other side is willing to take risks and act as soon as possible.

So what is the answer to this answer? And how to choose the most appropriate to confess to her, to be able to progress further, and date more?

Before going any further on the instructions and methods, I want to tell you one fact – your confession doesn't mean much to her. Because the star  it? Let's try to think logically for a bit:

So, once she likes you and gets your confession –> Both get the information they want. This is considered a WIN WIN state. But if she doesn't like you, or doesn't have feelings for you, then whatever you say doesn't matter.

After all, your confession only serves as a hint to the problem you and she both want the answer to. Therefore, most people who are willing to take risks get results sooner than others. And from there, it will save you time, to find and date other goals.

However, in this article, I myself do not want you to simply do this in the usual way. You know, there are many other effective methods that you may ignore or never know about.

Attractive body language

The first, which is also very effective when wanting to show that you like her on dates, is a sign of body language. Namely gestures, eyes, facial expressions, postures, etc... All these are worth more than 1000 words.

More specifically, you need to pay attention to your eye contact when communicating with her, how attentively you listen to her, or how you react to her. In this way, you not only show that you are attracted to her, but also make yourself more attractive.

Do not misunderstand and think evil thoughts. In fact, this is a great way to arouse women's emotions during dates. If your hands are soft, all the better – women like men with soft hands.

On dates , sometimes you need to touch her. Those are touches mixed with lightness and quickness. The areas you should touch her body are elbows, hands, shoulders, back, knees. Combine while talking, while taking her somewhere, opening the door, getting in the car, etc.

In fact, this method of touching is applied by experts ( Pickup Artists ) very often and is one of the core methods in dating, dating, or in relationships.

By doing this, you can get her deeper into the relationship, and can help you turn defeat into victory in some cases. However, special care must be taken when doing this work. Vietnam is an Asian country, so her mind is not very open, sometimes it can cause misunderstandings for her in dating. However, the above body areas are all positions that you can "attack", besides, you must perform the same polite attitude, and honest facial expressions to avoid misunderstandings.

Blend into the story

Say "I like you" while you and her are talking on a date, so remember that must be the time when the date is going well. quirky and interesting. Of course, you need to be the one to steer this story in an interesting direction before opening up on the date.

The funny thing is, when she's busy talking, she's focusing on the interesting content you're talking about. Then, after hearing the confession mixed in with this story, it's like you've influenced her over and over again.

In terms of mentality , when rummaging through people's minds on what has passed, it will search forever alone. In terms of real life, she wouldn't be embarrassed to hear these words on a date.

One of the most direct ways to let her know that you're into her is to mention dating more often.For example, "Are you free on Friday night, I want to go to XYZ with you, there are many interesting things". Next, "I know there's a new movie on Tuesday afternoon, let's go see it." From there, will she let you know if she's interested in you?

Pay close attention to her attitude and behavior during encounters. Usually, if she's interested in you, it's easy to go on regular dates. Meanwhile, if she refuses to date, the percentage of girls who are thinking about finding another guy is very high. In this case, you need to use more tests. I will introduce to you in the following articles.

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 Getting a phone number and then going on a date is a fairly simple task for some people, but it is extremely difficult for most. Not everyone has the courage and courage to ask for a number, but not everyone has the courage and courage to successfully apply for a number.

However, getting a phone number is not as difficult as you think. Vietnamese women are quite easygoing and polite to situations where men ask for a number. Besides, in embarrassing situations, they almost don't know how to politely refuse, especially young women. Here are a few basic experiences to ask for a number, so that you can go further with future dates.

Always keep in mind, there's nothing you can do if you're shy and embarrassed (See How to get a girl for a "shy " man ). You also never get a girl's phone number, let alone go on romantic and heart-fluttering dates. As men, we can do anything, asking for a number or going on a date are just simple things that anyone can do – just keep that in mind. Next, boldly ask for her number, even if you feel timid, scared, or like the world is shaking, hide them and speak as confidently as possible.

Next, if her posture looks like she's used to this, don't be too disappointed. Women have to do this job many times with other men every day, so don't worry too much. You see, if she's used to this, a lot of other people have asked for her number. And you, why are you so shy?, keep asking for her number, maybe you will have a chance to date her in the future.

An excuse to ask for a number

This is the most common method that men often do to arrange a date in the not too distant future. While talking, pretend you have urgent business to do. When waving, ask as naturally as you can "I have urgent business, we'll talk later, what's your phone number?", don't forget to give her your phone. he does it himself.

Talk for a while

Talk to your daughter for about 5-10 minutes, after a few minutes, she will know that you are friendly, cheerful, and mean nothing but asking for a number. They certainly don't think you're going to date her in the future. Remember that giving numbers is a very normal thing that women have to do every day. So there's no reason to refuse, as long as you don't appear too obnoxious and ungrateful in front of her.

Text her 1 minute later

Just because you got her number doesn't mean she will have yours. So a few interesting texts will make her remember you, and save your number, so if you call her and she doesn't listen, it will be very rude. On your side, you are also sure that she will pick up the phone if the contact is saved, while if it is an unknown number, in your opinion, will she pick up the phone?Text her a few lines such as "It was fun talking to you today, when you have free time, let's talk again, I'm the bald guy who just asked for your number. Bye!” Don't even think about dating right now. Currently, you just need to ask for a number for easy communication -> OUT.

If you can think of any other interesting messages, all the better, women love the fun that men can bring. Furthermore with this message , communicating with her in the future will be more natural and easier for you.

Don't be sad if you don't get the number

If you don't have your daughter's number, don't be sad or miserable. Once you have boldly approached to ask for the number of girls, it means that you have succeeded, and there is no mistake. The reason now depends on the muscle object.

There are countless reasons why she can't give you her number, maybe she just encountered a harasser, or her lover simply gets annoyed when she texts or calls back and forth. another guy, as simple as someone else asking for your number, you also feel annoying right? So you should respect her , whatever the reason, don't force yourself, there are so many other options available to you? The important thing is that you dare to move on or not?

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